'Barry is unique in his ability to combine a deep understanding of leadership with an approach devoid of egotism'
Stephanie Hilborne OBE
The Wildlife Trusts
'Lead Like Mary will inspire a whole new generation of leaders'
The Scout Association
'Lead Like Mary is full of wisdom and easy to grasp'
Endorsements for Barry's first leadership book 'Lead Like Mary', published 2014:
Reviews of Building a Community
by Barry Dore
Hi Barry! Just dropping you a message because I’ve just finished ‘Building a community’; a thoroughly enjoyable read with some great anecdotes and stories! It really is incredible that such a small community of volunteers could achieve so much - it’s genuinely inspirational! R.R
This is a wonderful book. I read it practically at one sitting as I became totally absorbed in the way the village become re-galvanised back into a community due to the energy & determination of the author Barry who had noticed a lack of community spirit in the rural village he recently relocated to.
The stories come alive as you become caught up in the ups and downs as Barry & the village residents overcome obstacles and find solutions to what appear to be simple yet very historical land ownership & modern day funding problems in the rebuilding of their dream village hall (Community Hub!).
This is a very informative and inspiring book, an absolute must read for anyone with an interest in local village life, community projects, leadership & change. Indeed it is a must for anyone looking to be inspired by the sheer determination of others. P.B.
Well, I don’t know how THAT happened but I just took the afternoon off work to read a local true-life story!
When you imagine a countryside village, you probably think of Emmerdale. A local pub and shop and hairdresser, etc. But there’s a real ‘village’ outside of Stone that has none of those things and appears very widespread, difficult to get to and confusing to navigate around. I know, I’ve been there! The properties are all just beautiful with many large gardens and pretty much no one seems to share a driveway with neighbours. Sounds idyllic in many ways but, having lived in village locations myself, all of that can come with a tinge of separation, isolation and loneliness.
Not in THIS village though! Despite pitiful internet access, somehow, the residents far and wide found a way to communicate and come together to create a phenomenal central hub to serve the whole community. The story of how they accomplished and, literally, built and cemented their community is the reason for my unexpected half day!
Read ‘Building a Community’ by Barry Dore (available from www.barrydore.com). It’s heart-lifting and inspiring and will have you longing to live in Fradswell.
Your book is a triumph and it clearly recognises the mammoth task the Working Group undertook. It allows outsiders a view of Fradswell and the need for a beating heart in rural communities. It is an easy read and sets a vision for other likeminded groups to adopt to achieve similar projects. Yes, it would not be a cake walk but it provides hope and a ‘road map’ to follow. It shows that the road ahead can be like the M6 on a Friday afternoon but with patience and an accurate Sat Nav the destination is achievable.
I enjoyed the book as it was a very personal journey for you and many other hard working, committed and loyal residents. For me knowing the individuals in the book made the journey real and more believable. It has made me, at 67, think (and that takes some doing) about how I approach my life in terms of community involvement.
Anyway, back to the book, I loved it. It’s readable narrative style hides a depth of understanding obviously gained through intuitive leadership knowledge. It is only right that understated, solid and dependable people like Andrea are highlighted for their contribution. I thought page 39 showed a huge visionary change; this was a vital rethink. I loved the ‘on or not on the bus’ page too - I know how you felt.
The book displayed that a professional approach with the correct professional people in place reap rewards. Amateurs can achieve a great deal but not the full package. Also there is a need for grit, determination and sometimes the need for honest home truths. (Tread on as few toes as possible but don’t be afraid to tread heavily on some if necessary)
In conclusion Barry Dore’s Book, Building a Community needs to be compulsory reading for all Parish Councillors or Village Hall Committee Members. AND, if something needs doing stand up, take responsibility, organise and do. RT
Having being involved in the project to build the new village hall, reading the book was a very emotive experience. Barry captures the highs and lows with a perfect balance.
The community of Fradswell are amazing; Barry captures and explains the strong values and community spirit with great passion, this undoubtedly played a huge part in the success of the project. The book is a very valuable record of the project that illustrates how the journey began, the obstacles encountered and the elation experienced at the various stages of success. Barry is an inspirational Leader and this is very apparent when reading the book, but having worked with Barry on the project, his determination and passion were amazing through all of the highs and lows.
Finally for anyone wanting to undertake any type of improvement/change project this book is a ‘must’ read that could make a very real difference.
I’ve just finished Barry Dore’s book on building a village hall - but in the process building a community. It’s a really easy read (that ticks my boxes) and tells an inspirational story. It’s also a reminder as to how simple leadership principles make a difference.
A truly inspirational story of how leadership principles applied to every day challenges result in significant success benefiting all. SE
I have just read your book Barry and I loved it. I felt many emotions and I was with you every step of the way, as you took your reader on the journey you lived. It was an amazing experience and you and your colleagues are truely motivated and inspiring people.
Your journey made me reflect on my own experiences over 36 years of working within the NHS. great memories in the main but by goodness some real uphill battles. SK